What matters most in birth? A healthy baby? The experience? A healthy mom? Vaginal or Cesarean? Medicated or Natural? If you are reading this post now to find the answers I can tell you already that you are off to a VERY bad start.
What matters most in birth? Only you have the answer. So here is some advice: stop looking for it externally in blogs, threads on facebook, journals, and ANY other people and search internally. Ask yourself the question and answer honestly. Determine why you came up with answer and act accordingly.
Lastly, remember this; while it may be in the general nature of us human folk to seek validation in our choices, when we make them educated, fully aware, and from our hearts, validation becomes moot point.